"Save the sari"

Save the sari from a sorry fate
SHASHI THAROOR
"Having just returned from a quick trip to India, i am moved to an urgent query: whatever became of the sari? For centuries, if not millennia, the alluring garment, all five or six or nine yards of it, has been the defining drape of Indian womanhood. Cotton or silk, Banarasi or Pochampalli, shimmering Kanjeevaram or multi-coloured bandhani, with the pallav draped frontto-back over the left shoulder or in the Gujarati style back-to-front over the right, the sari has stood the test of time, climate and body shape. Of all the garments yet invented by man (or, not to be too sexist about it, mankind) the sari did most to flatter the wearer. Unlike every other female dress on the planet, the sari could be worn with elegance by women of any age, size or shape: you could never be too fat, too short or too ungainly to look good in a sari. Indeed, if you were stout, or bowlegged, or thickwaisted, nothing concealed those handicaps of nature better than the sari. Women looked good in a sari who could never have got away with appearing in public in a skirt. So why has this masterpiece of feminine attire begun fading from our streets? On recent visits home to India i have begun to notice fewer and fewer saris in our public places, and practically none in the workplace. The salwar kameez, the trouser and even the Western dress-suit have begun to supplant it everywhere. And this is not just a northern phenomenon, the result of the increasing dominance of our culture by Punjabi-ised folk who think nothing of giving masculine names to their daughters. At a recent press conference i addressed in Thiruvanathapuram, there were perhaps a dozen women journalists present. Only one was wearing a sari: the rest, all Keralites without exception, were in salwar-kameezes. And when i was crass enough to ask why none of the “young ladies” present wore saris, the one who did modestly suggested that she was no longer very young. Youth clearly has something to do with it; very few of today’s under-30 women seem to have the patience for draping a sari, and few of them seem to think it suitable for the speed with which they scurry through their lives. (“Try rushing to catch a bus in a sari,” one young lady pointedly remarked, “and you’ll switch to jeans the next day.”) But there’s also something less utilitarian about their rejection of the sari for daily wear. Today’s younger generation of Indian women seem to associate the garment with an earlier era, a more traditional time when women did not compete on equal terms in a man’s world. Putting on pants, or a Western woman’s suit, or even desi leggings in the former of a salwar, strikes them as more modern.Freeing their legs to move more briskly than the sari permits is, it seems, a form of liberation; it removes a self-imposed handicap, releasing the wearer from all the cultural assumptions associated with the traditional attire. I think this is actually a great pity. One of the remarkable aspects of Indian modernity has always been its unwillingness to disown the past; from our nationalists and reformers onwards, we have always asserted that Indians can be modern in ancient garb. Political ideas derived from nineteenth and twentiethcentury thinkers have been articulated by men in mundus and dhotis that have not essentially changed since they were first worn 2,000 or 3,000 years ago. (Statuary from the days of the Indus Valley Civilisation more than 4,000 years ago show men draped in waistcloths that Mr Karunanidhi would still be happy to don.) Gandhiji demonstrated that one did not have to put on a Western suit to challenge the British empire; when criticised by the British press for calling upon the King in his simple loincloth, the Mahatma mildly observed, “His Majesty was wearing enough clothes for the two of us”. Where a Kemal Ataturk in Turkey banned his menfolk’s traditional fez as a symbol of backwardness and insisted that his compatriots don Western hats, India’s nationalist leaders not only retained their customary headgear, they added the defiantly desi ‘Gandhi cap’ (oddly named, since Gandhiji himself never wore one). Our clothing has always been part of our sense of authenticity. I remember being struck, on my first visit to Japan some 15 years ago, by the ubiquitousness of Western clothing in that Asian country. Every Japanese man and woman in the street, on the subway or in the offices i visited wore suits and skirts and dresses; the kimono and its male equivalent were preserved at home, and brought out only for ceremonial occasions. An Asian ambassador told me that envoys were expected to present their credentials to the Emperor in a top hat and tails. This thoroughgoing Westernisation was the result of a conscious choice by the modernising Meiji Emperor in 1868. One sees something similar in China today: though the transformation is not nearly as complete as in Japan, the streets of Beijing and Shanghai are more and more thronged with Chinese people in Western clothes. In both Japan and China, i allowed myself to feel a perverse pride that we in India were different: we had entered the 21st century in clothes that our ancestors had sported for much of the preceding 20. Today, i wonder if i’ve been too complacent. What will happen once the generation of women who grew up routinely wearing a sari every day dies out? The warning signs are all around us now. It would be sad indeed if, like the Japanese kimono, the sari becomes a rare and exotic garment in its own land, worn only to temples and weddings. Perhaps it’s time to appeal to the women of India to save the sari from a sorry fate.

* Emphasis mine
This article was taken from the TOI, " All that matters" dated 25th March.2007

My arguement

Which parts of India did he actually visit to conclude thus? There are many women even in the Metropolitan cities who still drape a saree to work,every single day.
By stating that saree defines Indian womanhood,one silences the fact that the saree is not the only clothing that defines Indian Womanhood, Woman all over India have been wearing Salwar Kurtas, Lehengas, Ghaghra-Cholis and many other types of dresses.
What is this whole talk about sari covering the handicaps of woman. A woman who doesnt have the perfect hour glass figure needs to be considered a handicap? ? Clap clap clap
Though I might agree that salwar -kurta is not the dress of South Indian woman, I would still like to ask , if a woman is comfortable wearing a Salwar -Kurta , why cant she? Why call it a dominance of Punjabi culture on South India? What about the womans choice to wear the clothes she wants to wear?
I would want to see Mr Tharoor wearing a dhoti /veshti/ Kurta pajama/Panche or any of the traditional Indian masculine attire to work everyday. Shirts,pants,Suits are western attires. And Gandhiji himself said that we need not wear western attires, whats stopping Shashi tharoor?
Maybe we also need to get the symbols of Indian masculinity out in the public and not restrict them to our private spheres.

Talking about Dhotis, The principal of our college scolded an undergraduate boy, because he was wearing a dhoti on ethnic day. And according to him boys should not have worn dhotis, but women had to wear sarees. I didnt understand why? Dhoti aint ethnic? (The men were decently clad so the question of indecency didnt arise).

Women always have to be the carriers of culture, Isnt it?

Others who share my views:
Uma
Emma
Nanopolitan
Angry fix
Gaurav Sabnis
Dev Kumar Vasudevan